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The Islander September 22, 2012 at 8:28 am Reply
Here's a quote from an  AskMen article explaining why men would prefer not to marry a slut: "Think about it for a moment: if men value a woman’s purity so much, how do you think they feel when they receive the same gift offered to so many other men? Here’s a better example: if I were to offer Stacy the same engagement ring that I once offered my ex-fiancée, would she appreciate it? I’m sure she wouldn’t, and it’s only a ring. Then how do you think men feel when a woman offers herself once she’s already offered it to so many other men?"  Hoism3 puts it in a different way: Men judge a woman's ability to be a good wife based on her history (SHOCKING!). So imagine the CEO of a company looking to hire a good VP, who does he hire? The girl that has had 30 different jobs? Or the girl that has had 2 or 3 but was loyal to those for a long time? Who will the CEO think is more likely to quit or leave him for another company?
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ceecee January 11, 2013 at 5:18 am Reply
Well how many have you slept with? Why is it that women like you will pretend to be okay with what you've done and yet you sit here talking in circles around the number. How many? Why can't you say it? Every "liberated" women I've known will talk and talk and talk up until the "well how many people have you had sex with/blown?" and then its all crickets. I've never understood that. You can say "its none of their business" and you'd be right. However, if you're going to talk so openly about other things pertaining to your sex life why not this? Some women will recount all the seedy details of a sexual encounter and yet they can't bear to utter the number. I think its shame to be honest. I think they ashamed and embarrassed so its easier to ignore. I think that part of you might be okay with you're "history" but another part of you is ashamed. Plain and simple. Btw, i've slept with 2 men. Not afraid to admit it. Don't care if someone thinks its prudish.

Marrie January 11, 2013 at 4:11 pm Reply
I don't think any number should be considered "prudish" anymore than another considered "slutty". I choose not to share my number because the point of the article is that a number shouldn't matter and that a number is truly relative!