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You’ve Been Warned: Red Flags to Watch for on a First Date
Even Gaga Would Call it a “Bad Romance”
Much more of a predictor in my book.
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C.Munro
wrote on February 8 2010 @ 03:33 pm: [report]
Yeah, a guy who’s questioning his sexuality or having trouble processing that he’s gay would NEVER go on a dating site in hopes of finding someone who can prove once and for all he’s straight.
It’s possible I guess, but it doesn’t seem likely.
Gays are still a pretty small minority for one thing. Closeted, unsure maybe-gays probably don’t account for more than a tiny fraction of the dating pool. And even then, I can’t help but think that Wanting More would’ve probably noticed some suggestion of his questionable orientation in the time they spent together.
It’s not completely impossible. I just think it far more probable that this guy doesn’t feel a physical attraction for WM. Actually, his open-ended “when I get these things at work done” excuse smells like he might be stringing her along while he pursues another woman to whom he feels a stronger attraction.
But that’s just my gut feeling.
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Karmatir
wrote on February 8 2010 @ 03:38 pm: [report]
I heard this once about “just friends”:
How To Be In A Relationship Without Losing Friends
Not Everything About Your Ex is Bad
The Secret To Why Guys Act The Way They Do
A Do’s and Don’ts Guide to Halloween Hookups
When It Comes to Dating, Should You Be Channeling Your Inner G.I.Joe?bubble shooter
You’ve Been Warned: Red Flags to Watch for on a First Date
Even Gaga Would Call it a “Bad Romance”
Much more of a predictor in my book.
C.Munro's avatar
C.Munro
wrote on February 8 2010 @ 03:33 pm: [report]
Yeah, a guy who’s questioning his sexuality or having trouble processing that he’s gay would NEVER go on a dating site in hopes of finding someone who can prove once and for all he’s straight.
It’s possible I guess, but it doesn’t seem likely.
Gays are still a pretty small minority for one thing. Closeted, unsure maybe-gays probably don’t account for more than a tiny fraction of the dating pool. And even then, I can’t help but think that Wanting More would’ve probably noticed some suggestion of his questionable orientation in the time they spent together.
It’s not completely impossible. I just think it far more probable that this guy doesn’t feel a physical attraction for WM. Actually, his open-ended “when I get these things at work done” excuse smells like he might be stringing her along while he pursues another woman to whom he feels a stronger attraction.
But that’s just my gut feeling.
Karmatir's avatar
Karmatir
wrote on February 8 2010 @ 03:38 pm: [report]
I heard this once about “just friends”: