“I have to say that I was completely unaware that non-single girls used this line. Really. If I’m faced with unwanted attention, I can and will wak away. Although a simple “I’m flattered, but I’m not interested, sorry” does suffice.”
By my count, you’ve brought the “what do I do if the guy won’t stop talking to me” up at least four times in threads we’ve been on. Is this all about one situation, or are you faced with a lot of unwanted suitors? What’s up with that?
149Jesus Mahoney October 9, 2011 at 7:31 pm
Sue,
A few can soar right to the top and get casual sex, like Jesus did this summer.
You know, I was thinking about this just last night. I was wondering if my game was really that good, or if something else was at work. And I think I’m just much better looking than I ever gave myself credit for. I know that sounds arrogant, but I don’t mean it to be. I was looking back at pictures of myself, and there’s no doubt that I was the goofiest, most awkward looking teenager that’s ever lived. Everything was out of proportion. I know a lot of boys go through that, but I think I suffered it a bit worse than most. Point is, I think I kept the old mind-set of goofy looking guy even after I grew out of it. Desiderius said:
Alphas are defined by options, not what they do with those options. She states at the outset that all the girls wanted him when they first met – that’s alpha.
Alpha is more of a mindset than anything, I think. You can have an Alpha that fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down, and you can have a Beta that’s top tier in terms of looks. Lola said on another thread:
Guys will not take you seriously if you are any of the following: – arrogant – bitchy – dumb – extremely shallow – easy/slutty – attention whore